Category: Stories

  • When Your Mammogram Is Abnormal

    When Your Mammogram Is Abnormal

      I’m not one to think the worst or to worry to excess. Oh wait, yes I am. So the call that my recent mammogram was abnormal really scared me. My doctor made the call herself to assure me that this kind of thing is very common. A shadow, an obstructed or blurred view, anything…

  • Red Wine and Grody Grout: Coming Clean About Getting Dirty

    Red Wine and Grody Grout: Coming Clean About Getting Dirty

    If you’ve ever spilled red wine on your lap (or heaven forbid, somebody else’s) you know how alarming it is. Know what else is alarming? When you cross your legs and knock over an end table, causing a glass of merlot to splash down onto your friend’s new cream carpet. It’s been over fifteen years…

  • A Soft Place To Land—A Story About Friendship

    A Soft Place To Land—A Story About Friendship

    I’m not calling my friends soft but, they are. Not in a doughy  “Gym? What gym?” kind of way. But in a gentle, comforting, curl up in their bosom and nestle, kind of way. Not that I curl up in their bosoms. There is absolutely no bosom nestling going on. Except for that one time at…

  • When Your Child Is Shunned

    When Your Child Is Shunned

    Conversations like these with my eight-year-old special girl make me want to scoop her up in my arms and then storm down to the playground, finger wagging, to kick some rude kid butt. Me: How was school today? Avery: Good. I made you a card. I did my letters.  Me: Who did you play with…

  • Life Lessons Learned From Loss

    Life Lessons Learned From Loss

      2014 was a year flanked on both ends by grief. Our family lost close family members in February and December. There was also the death of a pet in the middle (insignificant in comparison, but try telling that to a sobbing child who has only just recently had his first experience with losing a…