Tag: grief

  • When Your Child’s First Pet Dies

    When Your Child’s First Pet Dies

    There are many life changing things about including a pet in your family. When you have a child with disabilities, pets can make a marked difference to their quality of life. Pets are more work in a “get off the couch and walk these ding dongs and change that litter and fill that food bowl…” sort…

  • From Sympathy There’s Gratitude

    From Sympathy There’s Gratitude

    It’s Thanksgiving here in Canada and there is so much to be grateful for. But with all the awful things—the violence, the tumultuous and surreal (I mean, can you even believe this has been allowed to go on this long?) political climate, not to mention the unnerving actual climate, it feels like we have to…

  • Signs Our Loved Ones Are Still With Us

    Signs Our Loved Ones Are Still With Us

    I believe in signs. Or at least I believe that believing makes the sad bits of life easier.  One could argue that you can see anything if you’re looking for it, willing it to be there, twisting it into what you need it to be. You could argue that and you might be right.  But…

  • Life Lessons Learned From Loss

    Life Lessons Learned From Loss

      2014 was a year flanked on both ends by grief. Our family lost close family members in February and December. There was also the death of a pet in the middle (insignificant in comparison, but try telling that to a sobbing child who has only just recently had his first experience with losing a…

  • What Is The Time Limit On Grief?

    What Is The Time Limit On Grief?

    The minute you think you’ve come to terms with loss, grief comes back—quietly sneaking up on you as a fleeting pang, or slamming into you like a visceral punch that forces the breath from your lungs, making you gasp amid sobs. My friend Heather said the other day in reference to the loss of her…